TRUE LIFE: I am Mitch Mason || My Open Relationship

 ”I believe in being happy. So if involving other hot men in my bedroom keeps me and my partner happy, then I am all for it.”

I met Paulo almost two years ago. We were both in very different places in our lives back then, and both fell quickly for each other. He is Brazilian, has an amazing ass (which you all know I love), a great smile and is amazing in bed. He definitely keeps this Mitch happy. When we met, Paulo was living in Seattle. I was living in Portland. We did the long distance thing for about a month and then something changed at work and I decided to say FUCK IT, left, and moved to Seattle. I had nothing keeping me in Portland. Matt was long gone, my parents wouldn’t speak to me and I wasn’t happy with work. Paulo seemed to be a big risk but a big chance. So I did it. I moved.

Fast forward a short time… We were barely two months into our relationship and in San Diego for pride. Paulo, being non-committal, (I hear it’s a Brazilian thing) would barely admit publicly that I was his boyfriend but internally the connection seemed true. We spent pride weekend partying like professional gay circuit boys, with thousand of hot men surrounding us. It was a tempting buffet but not anything that could break the bond Paulo and I had.  We made it to the Zoo Party without too wandering of an eye. (btw if you haven’t been to the zoo party, I strongly recommend it. Matt, Paulo and I will be there this year)

Midway through the party, Paulo and I found ourselves very attracted to very hot man. We danced. We flirted. We fondled – but neither of us were sure what was going to happen. I, myself, had never involved a third person in the bedroom, while in a relationship. Sure I had my share of post bar three-ways, and all-night orgies, but not with someone I was falling in love with. But at-last, we found ourselves back in our hotel room with this hot guy. A bit awkward at first, the energy quickly shifted when Paulo and I kissed and reconnected. It was almost as if with a kiss he was saying, “Don’t worry we’re in this together, now lets plow this hot boy!”  It was a fucking hot night, I’m pretty sure that two years later, that guy is still not walking right.

“The Gay Male Couple’s Guide to Nonmonogamy” is an article from The Advocate about gay men in open relationships, with tips on how to open a relationship and maintain happiness within it. The piece begins with interviews with several couples whose relationships were monogamous for many years before the men decided to open them up. I say FUCK the rules – don’t read this article. You don’t need tips.  You need a strong life partner, who respects you and loves to fuck. That is it.

Is it for everyone? No.

Will there be fuck ups; jealous moments? Yes.

But what you learn from those downs will only make the highs better. If not, then they weren’t the right person for you.

Paulo and I continue to share our bedroom with others and continue to share a deep connection with each other. Each time I see him flirt with another man, I think “that’s my fucking boyfriend, and that other guy is going to have the time of his life with us tonight.”

Many of you have asked to see photo’s from Paulo and my wild sex adventure in Palm Springs. Here’s a small sampling but you can alway see more on my TUMBLR or FACEBOOK pages.

Until Next Time
XoXo

      Mitch Mason

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